Sometimes your booty call starts calling a little more than a casual rendezvous necessitates. Whether invited or not, you should closely monitor the progression of your booty call. If left unnoticed, the subtle signs can turn into full-blown red flags indicating that things are getting serious.
Here are 11 subtle signs that your booty call is becoming some much more.
1. Your Friends Know About Them
The sacred rule of booty calls is that they stay hush-hush. Once you or your booty call goes telling friends about your sexual meeting, it becomes more of a relationship.
You may not be changing your relationship statuses on Facebook, but you are no longer a secret. Booty calls are supposed to remain between the sheets. Unless, of course, you are quite open about your sex life with your friends and acquaintances, which is totally okay for many people.
This one can’t be undone.So, if you do not want the booty call to progress into something more, then you should probably find a new sexual partner at this point.
2. You Text Them More Than Necessary
Booty calls are quite formal and to the point. For instance, guys usually prefer to send a simple text such as, “Want to meet up?” with a time and location. You should be more cautious when you start texting each other more frequently in regards to other things. It is the moment your booty call has progressed into a relationship.
Those who are looking for more than a booty call should use this as an advantage. Send texts other than those that are sexually related, and gradually build into meetings that don’t require sex. If you are not looking for more than just platonic sex, then stop answering your phone.
3. Texts Occur Before Dinnertime
Stereotypically speaking, most booty calls do not happen before dinnertime.
So, if they occur before nighttime, you need to take this as one of the subtle signs. But then again, if you like to carry out your booty calls during the day, you should simply ignore this red flag.
Chances are that if you are texting before dinnertime, you are inquiring into something other than a hook up. Go ahead, scroll back through your texts and analyze the topic of conversation.
If you don’t want more than a booty call, be neutral. Set a time for yourself when you simply will not answer. Obviously, if you want more than just a sex buddy, then build a relationship slowly starting with texts.
4. You Know About Them
All you need to know about your booty call is that they are clean and STD-free. Besides that, they arrive and depart at your leisure. Once you are aware of other aspects of their life, you are branching into uncharted booty call territory.
In fact, if you know anything about their life at all, then this means that you two are talking. There is casual conversation, and then there is deep-rooted get-to-know-you chitchat. Keep in mind that this chitchat occurs when couples begin dating. That’s right. You have basically started that discussion.
You should understand that this is essentially the point of no return. Learning and investing in a person’s life means that there is a connection between both of you in more ways than just sex. Whether you like it or not, at least one of you has started developing feelings for the other one. At this point, if you break it off, there will be some pain involved.
Use the thought of breaking it off to evaluate how you feel about this person. Perhaps there are some deeper feelings there, and you do not even know it. If the thought of losing them, even as a sex partner, bothers you, then you more than likely have some deeper connection.
5. You And Their Pets Have A Relationship
It’s inevitable that you will be over their place, or vice versa, quite a bit. If a pet is involved, then you are likely to form some kind of relationship with that pet. Yet, if your relationship does not involve shooing them out of the room, then you might be more than a booty call.
If you find yourself referring to the pet by name, baby talking the pet, or petting the animal in your lap, then you are likely forming into something more than a booty call.
6. Sober Hangouts Happen
Even worse, you might have sober sex. Actually, that’s not necessarily a bad thing. You can actually be much more coordinated, and better able to remember it the next day.
Sober get-togethers during the day that do not involve animalistic sex are basically dates. Even if they are not called dates, even if you are just getting coffee, this is a date.
Do you want a date? If yes, then awesome, because you’re already there. If not, then take your coffee to go.
7. You Kiss Without Sex
This one is pretty self-explanatory. If anything other than a kiss on the cheek is occurring outside of the sexual realm, then you are in for it, and by it, we mean a relationship of sorts.
You need to understand that this is the point of no return. You have to discuss with your booty call whether or not you both want to be booty calls, or progress into something further. If you are not on the same page, then it is time to call it quits.
8. You Take It To Facebook
No, “booty call”is not a relationship status choice on Facebook; however, if you are posting things to your booty call’s wall, or they are sharing links on your wall, then you two are likely more than just mutual sex partners.
In this day and age, posting to Facebook is like publicly announcing that you two know each other. Unless you are already in a group of friends, this could be a major red flag. In fact, even if you are in a group of similar friends, this can still be a red flag.
It is pretty easy to fall victim to this without even realizing it. However, if you are thinking of your booty call when you see an article or meme on Facebook, then they are likely to be on your mind all of the time. If they are on your mind all of the time, then you probably have some feelings for them.
9. Things Happen In The Morning Other Than Sex Or Leaving
[adsanity id=”49837″ align=”aligncenter” /]Naturally, you two will fall asleep at one point or another. What you do in the morning, though, indicates the type of relationship you have. Usually, booty calls dress immediately and leave the room without even saying goodbye to their partners. Any lounging, conversation, and especially breakfast is a telling sign that more is involved.
Perhaps it is one-sided, but you have to be aware that even breakfast the next morning is a sign that more might occur in this relationship.
10. You’ve Left Things At Their Place
It might seem like there are a few exceptions to this, but there are not. If you or your booty call are leaving items, whether intentionally or not, and liking that they are there, then there is more than a booty call going on.
If you welcome this change, then you can amp it up by strategically leaving some items around the house. Gentlemen do note that women love when you leave large t-shirts or sweatshirts that smell like you.
Spray some cologne onto your items before you leave. Take it up a notch by mixing specially catered cologne with your pheromones. Websites such as www.NexusPheromones.com can explain the sexual effects of pheromones for you, but to give you a mini-lesson: They will help attract the opposite sex to your unique scent.
Of course, if you want to keep the booty call intact, then you should probably start bringing your stuff home with you.
11. There’s A Baby Involved
Whoa, that escalated quickly. No, no one is having a baby, but there is still a baby involved. This baby arrives in the form of name-calling.The second one of you calls the other, “Baby,” however, accidental or not, things have progressed beyond the standards of a normal booty call.
Either do your best not to call them baby, or make sure she knows it was a mistake to call you “Baby,” or, of course, call her baby back and begin a new kind of relationship altogether.Booty calls are awesome and convenient for those with hectic schedules. Just ensure you are conscientious of your booty call’s status. Never allow it to escalate if a relationship is not of interest to you.
The sacred rule of booty calls is that they stay hush-hush. Once you or your booty call goes telling friends about your sexual meeting, it becomes more of a relationship.
You may not be changing your relationship statuses on Facebook, but you are no longer a secret. Booty calls are supposed to remain between the sheets. Unless, of course, you are quite open about your sex life with your friends and acquaintances, which is totally okay for many people.
This one can’t be undone.So, if you do not want the booty call to progress into something more, then you should probably find a new sexual partner at this point.
Stereotypically speaking, most booty calls do not happen before dinnertime.
So, if they occur before nighttime, you need to take this as one of the subtle signs. But then again, if you like to carry out your booty calls during the day, you should simply ignore this red flag.
Chances are that if you are texting before dinnertime, you are inquiring into something other than a hook up. Go ahead, scroll back through your texts and analyze the topic of conversation.
If you don’t want more than a booty call, be neutral. Set a time for yourself when you simply will not answer. Obviously, if you want more than just a sex buddy, then build a relationship slowly starting with texts.
You should understand that this is essentially the point of no return. Learning and investing in a person’s life means that there is a connection between both of you in more ways than just sex. Whether you like it or not, at least one of you has started developing feelings for the other one. At this point, if you break it off, there will be some pain involved.
Use the thought of breaking it off to evaluate how you feel about this person. Perhaps there are some deeper feelings there, and you do not even know it. If the thought of losing them, even as a sex partner, bothers you, then you more than likely have some deeper connection.
Even worse, you might have sober sex. Actually, that’s not necessarily a bad thing. You can actually be much more coordinated, and better able to remember it the next day.
Sober get-togethers during the day that do not involve animalistic sex are basically dates. Even if they are not called dates, even if you are just getting coffee, this is a date.
Do you want a date? If yes, then awesome, because you’re already there. If not, then take your coffee to go.
No, “booty call”is not a relationship status choice on Facebook; however, if you are posting things to your booty call’s wall, or they are sharing links on your wall, then you two are likely more than just mutual sex partners.
In this day and age, posting to Facebook is like publicly announcing that you two know each other. Unless you are already in a group of friends, this could be a major red flag. In fact, even if you are in a group of similar friends, this can still be a red flag.
It is pretty easy to fall victim to this without even realizing it. However, if you are thinking of your booty call when you see an article or meme on Facebook, then they are likely to be on your mind all of the time. If they are on your mind all of the time, then you probably have some feelings for them.
It might seem like there are a few exceptions to this, but there are not. If you or your booty call are leaving items, whether intentionally or not, and liking that they are there, then there is more than a booty call going on.
If you welcome this change, then you can amp it up by strategically leaving some items around the house. Gentlemen do note that women love when you leave large t-shirts or sweatshirts that smell like you.
Spray some cologne onto your items before you leave. Take it up a notch by mixing specially catered cologne with your pheromones. Websites such as www.NexusPheromones.com can explain the sexual effects of pheromones for you, but to give you a mini-lesson: They will help attract the opposite sex to your unique scent.
Of course, if you want to keep the booty call intact, then you should probably start bringing your stuff home with you.
