Here’s the truth: Some men are jerks. Sorry guys, but that’s just how it is, even though the majority of you are good guys. Some men are so full of themselves, they think they can get any girl they want simply by bragging about what they have, and more.
If you are one of those men who look at women as objects you can pay, well, it’s no wonder you are still single and hoping you can mingle with someone soon. Women are complicated, yet rare gems. They long for an emotional connection, some intimacy and even a happily ever after. Some men, and we aren’t pointing any fingers here, on the other hand, are only interested in one thing: getting into her pants.
How can they do that? Perhaps no one’s given them the real deal. Maybe their father was a bad example, or they never learned to cherish and respect women. No worries, though. If you are one of them, here’s how to stop being the beast. These ten tips are sure-fire ways to become a more attractive guy in her eyes.
And, don’t worry, it’s they aren’t too hard to do, either.
1. Be A Good Storyteller
Surprised? Don’t be. Believe it or not, one of the key aspects of being an attractive guy is the ability to tell a story in the most interesting manner possible. Think of a story as an opera – it has common patterns and structures you can learn.
Therefore, try to be as animate as possible. It’s not about wearing a costume and doing voices a la Robin Williams, but at least do it in such a way that you will get her attention from start to end.
However, this is different from making up a story, so make sure you tell only the real, actual things that happened to you or to your friends.
2. Be Kind, Even To Strangers
Compassion and respect goes a long way. Being kind, especially to people you don’t know, shows the type of person that you are.
Hence, it won’t hurt if you hold the door for someone who’s got a handful of things, or give a tip to the delivery guy who’s soaking wet just to bring the cheese pizza in your doorstep, or even help an old lady across the street. There are so many kind things you can do aside from these.
Again, it shows your character and believe it or not, it can be a sexy thing that women will absolutely love.
3. Cook
You must have heard of the saying, “The key to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” That’s true. Who wouldn’t love a girl who can fill you in, both in your heart and stomach, right? Plus, the idea of seeing her in the kitchen, whipping her culinary skills is, well, hot.
On the other hand, women want some pampering, too. Giving her a massage can do the trick, but there’s something about cooking that will make you more attractive.
Just the thought of seeing you cut some vegetables and marinate the meat as you move your way on the kitchen is already enough to turn her on.
Therefore, it won’t hurt if you watch YouTube videos about how to cook her favorite dish. She’ll love you even more, even if you burn it.
4. Never Underestimate The Power Of Eye Contact
Making eye contact is, hands-down, one of the most important parts of attraction. It is so powerful that studies can prove that two minutes of gazing at each other can inspire deep feelings of love and passion, even in complete strangers. At the same time, it sparks a connection, which women surely love and find incredibly attractive.
[adsanity id=”49837″ align=”aligncenter” /]Therefore, use your eyes to your advantage. Glance at the girl, let her see you looking at her, then break the contact by looking at your side. The casually look at her again, look away, then make sure your eyes meet. It makes her feel that you are giving your full attention, especially when there are lots of other pretty girls around.
Aside from this, eye contact is also essential in bed. In fact, it is a subtle way of building that chemistry inside the bedroom, which makes her weak to her knees.
4. Be A Chick
Yes, this means be feminine from time to time. Surprisingly, women love men who are not afraid to show off their soft side. It only proves that you have a weak spot and you don’t care if other people will judge you or call you a weakling.
Hence, appreciating art, or waving at babies, or admitting you cried the first time you watched a movie like The Fault in Our Stars will make you more attractive, not a sissy to women.
Sure, being manly and having that swag can turn any girl’s head. However, having that “sensitive soul” will surely make women swoon.
Think about this. There’s a reason why Tom Hiddleston, Ryan Gosling and other famous dudes with sensitive souls out there have a large fan base. They’re not afraid to show their soft side and frankly, it’s pretty hot.
5. Be The Man Who Remembers
Well, here’s the challenging part. Try to do the same, but in healthy, non-creepy way. Try to remember everything she says, even though it looks like you are not interested when she said she was part of the cheerleading squad back in high school.
Then surprise her by asking her to show you pictures when she was still in the squad. Or text her out of the blue and tell her you’ve been thinking of her, or that you hope that she will do well on her business presentation. It only shows that you are listening to her and care about every word she says. And yes, that will surely make you incredibly attractive.
6. Decide What Your Future Will Be
You only live once, or so they say. However, this doesn’t mean you should always enjoy every moment and worry about the future later. Yes, YOLO, but you need to figure out what you will do with your life. As harsh as it may sound, you need to get rid of that “chill, I live in the moment” attitude.
Women are into men who know what they want. It’s not always about money, but women like men who have figured out what he wants to achieve by the time they are 28.
They want men who are focused, dedicated and driven. They need someone they know they can build their future with, since you’re not getting any younger, right?
So, if you haven’t figured out what you will do with your life, then you are in big trouble. Sadly, no one will care to stick around with a guy who doesn’t have any plans, except to drink, party and be merry. Plus, it screams immaturity and disrespect, too.
7. Be Smart
If women are to choose between smart dudes, versus airheads who are really good-looking, believe it or not, they will go with the smart dudes. Apparently, they can’t stand guys who are all-physical, but who can’t even hold a decent conversation for five minutes.
On the other hand, smart dudes go a long way. This means you can talk about almost anything without trying too hard or sounding silly. However, don’t be a show off. She doesn’t need to know how Charles Darwin came up with the theory of evolution, or the details behind George Washington’s journey to presidency. That’s why books are there.
Just have an opinion on things and make sure you can defend them. And if you are able to hold a conversation without boring her, then you’re off to a good start.
8. Hygiene. It’s A Must
Okay, this may be self-explanatory, but some men need reminding from time to time. In this case, make it an effort to make sure you are clean and look presentable.
Take a shower, sprinkle on some cologne or pheromone scent, and please, shave. Get a haircut from a legit barber, not just some guy you saw on the streets.
In other words, make sure any facial hair is under control. At the same time, swish some mouthwash. Fresh mints can be your best friend, so make sure you have some on hand.
9. Learn How To Please A Woman In Bed
Now that she sees as you as an attractive dude and things are going great between the two of you, then it’s time to take it to the next level. Sex for women is predictable. Kiss on the lips, take of the shirt, lick her down there, some bump and grind, and boom, it’s done. If you really want to keep the attraction, even if you two are already together, you need to make sure you know how to please her. And, not just down there, but also by focusing on every corner of her body.
Be the better man and stop acting like women should worship you. We are all only human, and equals, after all. Please her by paying attention to her needs and wants, both on and off the bed, not just yours. When you are able to do so, she will surely love you back, no matter what.
Surprised? Don’t be. Believe it or not, one of the key aspects of being an attractive guy is the ability to tell a story in the most interesting manner possible. Think of a story as an opera – it has common patterns and structures you can learn.
Therefore, try to be as animate as possible. It’s not about wearing a costume and doing voices a la Robin Williams, but at least do it in such a way that you will get her attention from start to end.
However, this is different from making up a story, so make sure you tell only the real, actual things that happened to you or to your friends.
You must have heard of the saying, “The key to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” That’s true. Who wouldn’t love a girl who can fill you in, both in your heart and stomach, right? Plus, the idea of seeing her in the kitchen, whipping her culinary skills is, well, hot.
On the other hand, women want some pampering, too. Giving her a massage can do the trick, but there’s something about cooking that will make you more attractive.
Just the thought of seeing you cut some vegetables and marinate the meat as you move your way on the kitchen is already enough to turn her on.
Therefore, it won’t hurt if you watch YouTube videos about how to cook her favorite dish. She’ll love you even more, even if you burn it.
Yes, this means be feminine from time to time. Surprisingly, women love men who are not afraid to show off their soft side. It only proves that you have a weak spot and you don’t care if other people will judge you or call you a weakling.
Hence, appreciating art, or waving at babies, or admitting you cried the first time you watched a movie like The Fault in Our Stars will make you more attractive, not a sissy to women.
Sure, being manly and having that swag can turn any girl’s head. However, having that “sensitive soul” will surely make women swoon.
Think about this. There’s a reason why Tom Hiddleston, Ryan Gosling and other famous dudes with sensitive souls out there have a large fan base. They’re not afraid to show their soft side and frankly, it’s pretty hot.
Women are into men who know what they want. It’s not always about money, but women like men who have figured out what he wants to achieve by the time they are 28.
They want men who are focused, dedicated and driven. They need someone they know they can build their future with, since you’re not getting any younger, right?
So, if you haven’t figured out what you will do with your life, then you are in big trouble. Sadly, no one will care to stick around with a guy who doesn’t have any plans, except to drink, party and be merry. Plus, it screams immaturity and disrespect, too.
Okay, this may be self-explanatory, but some men need reminding from time to time. In this case, make it an effort to make sure you are clean and look presentable.
Take a shower, sprinkle on some cologne or pheromone scent, and please, shave. Get a haircut from a legit barber, not just some guy you saw on the streets.
In other words, make sure any facial hair is under control. At the same time, swish some mouthwash. Fresh mints can be your best friend, so make sure you have some on hand.
