You already know that sex has tons of benefits. Aside from the pleasure, a steamy session every night with your ladylove is good for your overall health. Sadly, not all women are able to orgasm every time you decide it’s time to do it. In fact, a majority of women fake orgasm for variety of reasons, which includes just to get over sex.
Admit it, this could be a major issue on your part. You may feel you are not doing your best to provide her the best pleasure and experience in bed. To make sure that she will get the best sexual experience from you, you decided to learn more about all the different ways to satisfy your ladylove. Here to help you are 13 of the many reasons why you should, along with some helpful advice.
1. Orgasm Matters
How important is orgasm for you? It may not be a matter of life and death, but reaching that big O means a lot to you. The same goes with women. They may not be biologically designed to like sex all the time, but surely, they want to reach climax at least in most of your lovemaking sessions.
Why?
It’s because orgasm does matter. You don’t have to pretend that it doesn’t. Orgasm makes your woman feel good, eases any pain she feels down there, helps her get rid of stress and makes her feel better about herself. The challenge now is how you plan to do it.
2. It Is Your Ego Booster
When was the last time you made your ladylove feel good both in and out of the bedroom? Does it make you feel good about yourself knowing she is happier because of you? By definition, the ego is your sense of self-esteem or self-importance. From the time you wake up in the morning, until you go to bed at night, you want to make sure that your ego is intact. This includes your experience in bed.
During your bedroom sessions, hearing your woman moan with pleasure and satisfaction makes you feel better about yourself. In other words, the fact that you are able to make her happy in bed validates your ego. You don’t have to post on Facebook and tell the whole world how good you are in bed. Still, there is no doubt that your ability to satisfy a woman’s pleasure does something to your ego.
3. It Provides You With The Assurance That You Are Doing Good
Aside from validating your ego, satisfying your woman every night gives you the assurance that you are on the right track in bed. The question is, how do you know if you are doing it right?
Here is a clue: Pay attention to her body language. Most women don’t like talking about their wants in bed because of a fear of judgment. Every time you do something, notice how her body reacts to it. If she is pulling away, then you need to move on to the next trick. Otherwise, you are doing well.
As you two get closer, start asking about the things she likes and doesn’t like in bed. This helps you adjust your tricks and makes sex even more pleasurable for her.
4. Seeing Her Orgasm Looks Amazing
There are tons of articles and studies saying women are having a hard time getting that big O. This doesn’t intend to scare you or encourage you to up your game inside the bedroom. The numbers showing more women are faking it don’t lie. Worse, this could be alarming. On the other hand, there are reports that say women are capable of having multiple orgasms.
This makes female orgasm even more intriguing. Since the idea on how women achieve it is foreign to you, you can’t help but be amazed when she finally gets that big O. After all, it’s epic to watch.
5. You Want To Make Sure That She Is Having A Good Time
Women love it when you are happy with their performance in bed; however, this doesn’t mean you don’t have to return the favor once you’re through.
Your girl expects you to give the same level of performance she did, which is why you need to strive harder to fulfill the service.
There are many ways to check if she is having a good time or not. In fact, she could still enjoy sex, even without experiencing the big O. Still, it won’t hurt if you do your best to give her that to ensure she is having a great time in bed. Remember, you aim to please.
6. It Breeds Fidelity And Faithfulness In The Relationship
Unfortunately, infidelity and cheating spouses are all too common these days. Although not tolerated, there are various reasons why men and women do the dirty deed. One of the reasons is dull and predictable sex. You could save yourself from misery – and an expensive divorce settlement –by ensuring that your ladylove is happy every time you make love to her. It may sound immature and shallow, but your ability to satisfy your woman at night could spell a lot of difference in the relationship.
In other words, don’t take orgasms lightly. This three to 15 seconds every night mean a lot to her and they should to you, as well.
7. It Brings You Closer Together
Have you ever wondered why you feel the need to cuddle after getting that big O? After climax, your body releases oxytocin, the cuddle or bonding hormone.
It takes over your system and makes you feel extra cuddly and touchy. At the same time, it makes you both feel more connected to each other.
Plus, your ladylove will appreciate it if you spend a few minutes cradling her in your arms. It makes her feel more loved, even if you don’t discuss what will happen between you two 10 years from now. At the same time, it makes her feel that sex is more than just getting those juices out.
8. You Get A Private Show
You’ve seen it in porn movies or sex scenes in many Hollywood films. Isn’t it amazing how a woman climaxes? Apparently, they are acting,so you will never know if it feels good or not. Thankfully, you have your woman beside you who will tell you how it really feels. You will see firsthand how a woman orgasms – and it’s one of the best things you will see.
The way she loses control, bites her lip, curls her toes, arches her back and raising her voice are simply amazing. In other words, you get a private show – for free.
9. It Makes You Feel More Powerful
[adsanity id=”49837″ align=”aligncenter” /]Getting into fights and bullying other people might make you feel stronger and more powerful – if you are in high school. In a man’s world, that’s not how it goes. In fact, the ultimate gauge of your manliness comes from your woman who screams your name for pleasure and begs for more.
It may sound simple, but making your ladylove orgasm puts back the man in the word, “manhood.” It reminds you and your girl that you are the man in the relationship and willing to live up to it. Surely, there are other things that make you feel manly, but still, you have to admit it. When you are able to satisfy your woman during every sexy session, you indirectly tell her who is in control – in a good way and in bed.
10. It Makes Her Go Wild
Another reason why you need to satisfy your girl: you want her to go all out in bed. Apparently, it’s not going to be easy if you don’t give her what she wants.
At the same time, she will always hold back in bed instead of being at her performance level.
As much as you can, allow her to experience multiple orgasms. On your next session, she will surely let her inner porn star out for you.
11. It Is An Accomplishment
How do you feel when you get a promotion? What about after a job well done and your boss commends you for your efforts? You feel proud of yourself, right? You may not admit it, but you also crave for the same sense of achievement inside the bedroom.When you finally succeeded, you will surely feel better about yourself. It’s an accomplishment too, considering the large number of women who fake it.
12. You Secretly Wish She Would Do The Same
Sex is a two-way process. It needs two people working together to make it pleasurable and memorable.
There are different ways on how to do this, such as fulfilling each other’s fantasies or role-playing. In other words, it all boils down to reciprocating.
Think about this. If you are able to satisfy her needs in bed, she would do everything she can to make sure you are also satisfied. Women don’t mind giving back, as long as you also give her something she will never forget.
13. You Care About Her Happiness
More importantly, her happiness matters to you. Satisfying her needs in bed validates how good you are. However, it doesn’t end there. It’s also about making her happy and giving her the kind of treatment she deserves.
Above all this, allowing her to experience that big O is an inexpensive way to make her happy. Unlike jewelry, flowers and eating in fancy restaurants, her orgasm is easily accessible and readily available. You will both be happier together, too.
It’s because orgasm does matter. You don’t have to pretend that it doesn’t. Orgasm makes your woman feel good, eases any pain she feels down there, helps her get rid of stress and makes her feel better about herself. The challenge now is how you plan to do it.
Aside from validating your ego, satisfying your woman every night gives you the assurance that you are on the right track in bed. The question is, how do you know if you are doing it right?
Here is a clue: Pay attention to her body language. Most women don’t like talking about their wants in bed because of a fear of judgment. Every time you do something, notice how her body reacts to it. If she is pulling away, then you need to move on to the next trick. Otherwise, you are doing well.
As you two get closer, start asking about the things she likes and doesn’t like in bed. This helps you adjust your tricks and makes sex even more pleasurable for her.
Women love it when you are happy with their performance in bed; however, this doesn’t mean you don’t have to return the favor once you’re through.
Your girl expects you to give the same level of performance she did, which is why you need to strive harder to fulfill the service.
There are many ways to check if she is having a good time or not. In fact, she could still enjoy sex, even without experiencing the big O. Still, it won’t hurt if you do your best to give her that to ensure she is having a great time in bed. Remember, you aim to please.
Have you ever wondered why you feel the need to cuddle after getting that big O? After climax, your body releases oxytocin, the cuddle or bonding hormone.
It takes over your system and makes you feel extra cuddly and touchy. At the same time, it makes you both feel more connected to each other.
Plus, your ladylove will appreciate it if you spend a few minutes cradling her in your arms. It makes her feel more loved, even if you don’t discuss what will happen between you two 10 years from now. At the same time, it makes her feel that sex is more than just getting those juices out.
Another reason why you need to satisfy your girl: you want her to go all out in bed. Apparently, it’s not going to be easy if you don’t give her what she wants.
At the same time, she will always hold back in bed instead of being at her performance level.
As much as you can, allow her to experience multiple orgasms. On your next session, she will surely let her inner porn star out for you.
Sex is a two-way process. It needs two people working together to make it pleasurable and memorable.
There are different ways on how to do this, such as fulfilling each other’s fantasies or role-playing. In other words, it all boils down to reciprocating.
Think about this. If you are able to satisfy her needs in bed, she would do everything she can to make sure you are also satisfied. Women don’t mind giving back, as long as you also give her something she will never forget.
